Why aren’t you good enough?

You’re tired. You’re exhausted. You feel like you’re being pulled in a million directions at once. Everyone wants a piece of you, and all you want to do is have a moment to yourself. But even if you had that time, you wouldn’t quite know what to do. You want to keep everybody happy. You’re afraid of people being mad at you. You struggle with what you actually want in your life, and you’re shackled to the idea that you have to be good and perfect to be loved.

The Good Girl is running your life, and it’s time for her to take a seat.


The Good Girl is a tyrant, and she knows no mercy. She pins you to an identity so tightly defined that it’s impossible to achieve. Demanding that you be absolutely nice, well-mannered, modest, and selfless, she paralyzes you with self-criticism, limits your power and potential, and stunts your capacity to learn new skills and habits.

In short, the Good Girl is a bitch. And you are her main target.

It’s time to liberate yourself from the tyranny of the Good Girl. Her harsh demands for your perfection will not get you where you want to be. There is someone else you’ve got to be.

Someone who is…. the real you.

Introducing: The Good Girl Recovery Program.

Imagine that you could, just for a minute, put down all that work you do to keep other people happy.

That you had explicit permission to not get it right.

That you could go there. Try things. Dare greatly. Lean in. Mess up. Have feelings.

And to be loved and supported while you do so.

Imagine that you spent most of your time only doing things that you’re delighted to do.

That you attract people who relate to relationships like fun (instead of work).

That you can feel what you’re excited about in the moment, and let yourself follow your desire.

Imagine honing anti-perfectionism as a craft. Doing things even when you’re sure that someone else can do it better. Even when you’re not “ready,” simply for the joy and pleasure that it brings you.

That’s what the Good Girl Recovery Program is all about. womaninfield

The next class starts JANUARY 2015.

The early bird catches the worm! Sign up here to get the sneak-peek early notification for this course, and as a bonus, I’ll send you a copy of my ebook, “Good Girl Gone Bad” so you can get a jump-start on getting more of what YOU want (and less of what SHE’S serving up!)


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